Bad hair days, bad clothes, random bits of food stuck in your teeth.
Cute boy/girl talks to you, then their friend walks up, whispers something in 
their unsuspecting ear, and then the cute boy/girl gives you a strange look then walks away. 
Everyone, from celebrities like Brad Pitt, to Reese Witherspoon, even to Victoria's Secret 
models. Singers even, from new music breakthroughs, to jazz legends. One Direction to SHINee. 
Everyone has their good days and their bad days. 


One of several things that are good about not being famous is that it's OK for you to mess up! I mean, come on, get REAL!! Everyone is going to make mistakes, because nobody, yeah, even you is perfect! 


A lot of teenage girls have boyfriends, right? Well, have you ever heard one of your friends, or overheard someone talking about how she HATES, absolutely HATES a thing that her boyfriend does.   
Then, you've probably heard her say, "Oh, I'm not worried; I can change him." 


*Ahem* REALITY CHECK!!! 


GIRLS, YOU CANNOT CHANGE HIM! It just doesn't work that way! And also, you've probably heard her or another one of your friends, or even you(if you are a girl) talk about a guy that she likes. 


Here's a scenario:


You are a very popular girl, walking down the hallways of your school with your highly popular friends. One of your friends starts raving about this new guy that just transferred to your school. "He's so hot! He's a bad boy! His hair is so perfect! His eyes are so GORGEOUS!"  You all listen to her go on, until one of your friends says something about his bad reputation. The girl who was gushing over the boy turns to her with a sharp look, saying, "You don't know him! He's really a good guy! All of that bad stuff that he's done, that's in the past now! I can change him!"  
You remain silent, but in you can see that in her eyes, there is a shadow of doubt. 
Her and him start dating, and less than two months into the relationship, she is miserable. They breakup, and now she bears the horrible, ugly scars of hurt, heartbreak, and the cold, hard truth: that she WAS NOT ABLE TO CHANGE HIM!! 


OK, so back on topic that nobody's perfect, um, well, nobody's perfect!! That was my lesson of the day.